Monday, August 23, 2010

The Least of These...

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I rushed out of my office this morning to a waiting car parked on a curb directly across the street from a pet store near my work.  I needed to make a deposit in the bank. I felt hurried and anxious. As I reached for the door I heard a conspicuous squeal above the din of travel and commerce.  I looked toward the noise and saw the young girl in the parking lot of the store.

She sat in a wheel chair affixed to a lift descending out and down from a large, commercial looking van that I recognized from a local rehabilitation center in our area. Two other children who looked physically and mentally challenged stood below with two social workers.

They cheered for her.

A broad grin covered the young girl's haggard looking face.  Dark, disheveled hair sat atop her head and jeans concealed what I'm sure were withered legs.  I guessed her for twelve or so. 

Near the same age as my own daughter.

I stood there for a moment; the sound of passing cars on the avenue behind me invading the peacefulness of the late August day.  I wondered about the source of their excitement.  I wondered how long she had lived in that chair.  I wondered if this was her first time being outside and away from the painful memories of more uncertain destinations.

Mostly, I wondered about her family.  The family all children deserve.  The family they so desperately need. 

Maybe she would spend a few minutes roaming the store, stroking the pelts of some furry creatures oblivious to her plight.  For a brief moment maybe she would feel invigorated-knowing the warmth of a mostly elusive normalcy, bothered all the while by the impending truth of her life waiting back outside.

I thought about my charmed life-my healthy, happy children.

My easy road.

I thought about my pettiness too-my infected, carnal self.  I thought about my going here and there and my quest for storing up worldly treasures.

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The vanity of it all. 

Soon, the brief touch faded as I resumed my worldliness. I went on about my business. I suppose she went about her own ...such a different and infinitely harder road, but likely more content than others to whom much more had been given. I focused again on myself, on what I need, what I want.

What would make me happy.

Meanwhile, children all around us in their quiet places long for much simpler things-to walk and run free; to jump and swim; to love and be loved back; to know the security found in a body that's whole.

Some travel easy roads, while others walk more rugged paths.


And for some like her-well, they never get to walk at all...





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27 comments:

M.L. Gallagher said...

Jeff, you are a man of great beauty and great heart.

You made me cry -- soft, gentle tears, of gratitude, of sorrow, of love.

Thank you.

Jeff Jordan said...

Thank you, Louise...for your heart...for your encouragement...truy a blessing!

Lizzie said...

Sweet. How odd you would write about this today. A year ago, I met a girl like her, same age and all. She was something. She was born w spinabifada.. Born to a wonderful mom. Her spirit was infectious, her love for our Father great. The way that girl could get around, you would forget she could not walk and had other adversities. We have stairs in our house and high beds... She didn't need any help to climb them. She was strong. To pity her would be a disservice because that girl was tough and sweet and full of life. I will never look sadly upon another girl like Julia but will admire their strength to preservere. Last I heard from her, she was soo excited to start school today. Sadly, her life here ended suddenly in her sleep this weekend. Only 12 years old but knew God far better than many of us. Pray for her family's healing. Lisa Sniger is her mom.

Jeff Jordan said...

Liz, I can't imagine what Lisa is going through. I remember her from school. Thanks for stopping by and if you see her, let her know we will pray for her family.

Joyce said...

This was lovely and thought provoking. I have worked with special needs children and they have much to teach us. Thanks for sharing this today...I feel like its one of those posts that will stick with me.

A Simple Country Girl said...

I will pray for Lisa as well.

And may I add Ashley to the prayer request--her doctor is urging her to terminate her pregnancy because things don't look quite right. They urged me to do the same...and guess what, my 6-year old son played soccer last night and starts homeschool today.

Thanks Jeff for breaking our hearts where they need to be broken.

Blessings.

katdish said...

A great reminder to see beauty in those we might otherwise pity. Joy is not confined to our circumstances.

And Darlene - we had a similar scare with our oldest son. The doctor found a spot on an ultrasound and urged me to get an amnio. I refused because the results would not change our decision to have the child. He's now 13 and very healthy. Praying for Lisa and Ashley today.

Anne Lang Bundy said...

Jeff ~

It is not being lame or blind or deaf, but being lonely or shunned or insecure that is the greater sorrow for children.

Don't miss an opportunity to smile. It does more good than noticing by itself.

JC Dude said...

Jeff, that was very moving...

Sandra Heska King said...

Jeff, you are a heartbreaker. You write things that break my heart in the ways it should be broken. Thank you.

S. Etole said...

Your words always reach deep and touch my heart.

Laura said...

I work in a rehabilitation center like the one you must be referring to, Jeff, though we rarely get kids younger than their teens here. What deep lessons I have learned from my patients and their families. Yes, it does remind me of all that I take for granted, but also inspires me to be a better person-focused on what matters a bit more.

Thanks for sharing this. And, BTW, the water at the Outer Banks was different every day! We've gone there for many years and rarely does the water get warm-warm. But there were some strange riptides going on and the water actually felt warm a couple days! It also brought some strange ocean life closer to shore. There was a day of jellies, and I almost stepped on a horseshoe crab. One day someone had a run in with a stingray and had to be taken off the beach in an ambulance.

But it was all good :)

Jeff Jordan said...

Laura,
We normally go to Sandbridge which is just south of VA Beach, but decided to go to OBX this year. Water was in the mid sixties all week...so cold it hurt for 10-15 minutes until you got numb. Lots of dead jellyfish washed up all over the beach late in the week too, but we still had a great time...kids didn't care how cold it got...my old bones prefer a little warmer temps :)

Bridget Chumbley said...

Such a beautiful post, Jeff. I loved it. Thank you.

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A Simple Country Girl said...

Jeff, hey! It was good to have a comment from you today. And no, to answer your question, no. Not my husband. Someday maybe my son though!

I was just wondering if you are all okay? Haven't seen a post from you in a long while. Hope everyone is healthy and happy.

Blessings.

S. Etole said...

It was so very good to hear from you today ... missing your writing. Prayers for all of you.

caryjo said...

So true... the every day run and jumpiness of everyday life. We do what we have to ... I'm sitting here typing this while knowing I have to get another window washed in a few minutes or I'll be behind schedule ... and yet I know so often that I need to do the old proverbial comment: slow down and smell the roses -- and see the reality of the life others face.

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